Message: “Help for a Hurting Marriage” from Steve Zeisler

Marriages cannot succeed if they are expected to be an unfailing source of fulfillment and happiness (replacing God) or if they are based on merely human wisdom and effort (ignoring God). Peter has argued that God’s presence is made plainest to us when we are most in need and this insight applies to marriage. Though there are cultural particulars (e.g. braided hair) that may or may not apply across time and geography, Peter’s essential insight is universal. Those in stressful marriages must not resort to manipulation (often the recourse of wives) or intimidation (often the recourse of husbands) to get what they want. Believers must take the risk of inviting God into the mix and trust him to do what is right.

Scripture References: 1 Peter 3:1-7

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From Series: "Beloved Exiles: Studies in 1 Peter"

At the center of the Bible’s message is the declaration that what you see is not what you get. By faith we rest, we fight, we rejoice, we endure, and we love - counting on realities that are either invisible or waiting for us in the future. For this reason we live distinct from our neighbors whose hopes and values are rooted in this world. First Peter was written to encourage ‘sojourners’ – those whose home is elsewhere. Peter insists on growth toward maturity, calls for courage (even joy) in hardship and for righteous living that is likely to be misunderstood and ridiculed. He describes an eternal family that is based on Spirit not tribe, and observes that gold and silver perish, while godly character lasts forever. Peter speaks forthrightly, with great wisdom, about suffering and the enmity of the devil. Finally, this letter has clear, practical instruction for employees, citizens, spouses, parents and church leaders. First Peter has much to offer us - living in Silicon Valley while belonging to Jesus.

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