Marriages cannot succeed if they are expected to be an unfailing source of fulfillment and happiness (replacing God) or if they are based on merely human wisdom and effort (ignoring God). Peter has argued that God’s presence is made plainest to us when we are most in need and this insight applies to marriage. Though there are cultural particulars (e.g. braided hair) that may or may not apply across time and geography, Peter’s essential insight is universal. Those in stressful marriages must not resort to manipulation (often the recourse of wives) or intimidation (often the recourse of husbands) to get what they want. Believers must take the risk of inviting God into the mix and trust him to do what is right.